Episode 16: Birds of a Feather Flock Together

 “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and God of all encouragement, who encourages us in our every affliction, so that we may be able to encourage those who are in any affliction with the encouragement with which we ourselves are encouraged by God. For as Christ’s sufferings overflow to us, so through Christ* does our encouragement also overflow. If we are afflicted, it is for your encouragement and salvation; if we are encouraged, it is for your encouragement, which enables you to endure the same sufferings that we suffer. Our hope for you is firm, for we know that as you share in the sufferings, you also share in the encouragement.” - 2 Cor 1: 3-6

In this episode, Kelly, Elizabeth, and Brittany discuss the themes of joy and suffering during Holy Week, the importance of finding your flock in grief, the inspiration behind Redbird Ministries. Kelly dives into the peer accompaniment model and the value of walking the grief journey with others who have experienced similar loss. The hosts discuss the transformative power of in-person retreats and the unique grief support offered at Red Bird’s Restored & Revival retreats.  The conversation concludes with personal reflections on carrying the stories of others and the knots of grief experienced during Holy Week and Easter.  It’s not for nothing!  We are so glad you are here. 

Takeaways include: 

  • Navigating joy and suffering during Holy Week can be challenging, especially for parents who have lost a child.

  • The concept of belonging and finding a community of support is crucial in the grief journey.

  • Red Bird Ministries was inspired by the metaphor of birds flocking together, symbolizing the strength and support found in community.

  • The peer accompaniment model, where individuals who have experienced similar loss walk the grief journey together, can provide a deeper understanding and connection. 

  • Grief ministry requires personal experience and understanding to connect with others on a deep level.

  • In-person retreats offer a unique, transformative experience for individuals navigating grief and provide an opportunity to till and soften the heart, allowing for growth and healing in Christ. 

Elizabeth Leon

Elizabeth Leon is the Director of Family Support for Red Bird Ministries. She and her husband Ralph are from Ashburn, Virginia and have ten children between them - five of hers, four of his, and their son, John Paul Raphael who died on January 5, 2018. His short and shining life was a sacred experience that transformed her heart and left a message of love for the world: let yourself be loved. She writes about finding the Lord in the darkness of grief in her book Let Yourself Be Loved: Big Lessons from a Little Life, available wherever books are sold. Read more from Elizabeth at www.letyourselfbeloved.com.

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