At the service of Bereaved Families
“No one ever told me that grief felt so much like fear.”
— C.S. Lewis
Family Support
Oh, sweet Mom and Dad. We see you. We care about your broken heart. Let us love you through our many beautiful support resources. You can register your family or friends for support by filling out the registration form here.
Red Bird Ministries serves ordinary families
who have been given an extraordinary cross to carry.
Red Bird Ministries grief support focuses on those who are carrying the heavy cross of child loss including: miscarriage, stillbirth, and after birth as an infant, child, adolescent, and adult child.
Red Bird Ministries helps parents to understand grief, how to navigate through it, and how to take practical measures to begin the healing process. No matter the stage of grief our families are in, our programs will guide families to find healing and restoration through the beautiful gifts of Our Mother Church.
Branded App
You are welcome to join the first Catholic-focused grief support app and community haven for families of child loss to find solace and resources.
Recommended Support Opportunities
Here are 3 recommended support opportunities we think are extremely helpful to take the next step after loss.
Did you know that Red Bird Ministries has 6 prayer sessions on the Hallow App?
You can find us by visiting the Hallow app and searching the mental health section for child loss, or click below.
Chapters
At the support of the Catholic Church and Catholic Families, Red Bird Ministry Advocates are forming chapters across the USA. Browse the chapter directory below.
New Family Healing Box
For a loved one – or yourself! – Our Healing Boxes are the perfect pick-me-up: thoughtful, useful, easy to customize, and ship.
When words fail, these boxes say it all.
Here are the steps you can take to begin receiving support immediately.
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1. Download Our App
You are welcome to join the first Catholic-focused grief support app and community haven for families of child loss to find solace and resources
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2. Schedule a Comfort Call
Comfort Calls allows our families to be comforted during their most difficult times in grief. Schedule today and let us love you through your grief.
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3. Spiritual Direction
Spiritual Direction allows our families to be spiritually guided through the complexity of the spiritual life, and to work through the obstacles that grief tends to create.
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4. Find a Chapter
Attend a Grief Support Group Lead by a Red Bird Ministries Chapter Leader or attend a Couples Workshop. If there is not a Chapter in your area, please reach out to us to chat.
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5. Get Grief Tips
Getting good grief support shouldn’t be hard. Sign up today and get customized grief tips texted directly to your cell phone.
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6. Stay Connected
If you want to know when our next grief event is both in-person and virtually, sign up for our Grief Events by clicking below.
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7. Couples Workshop
Our workshops are designed for grieving couples and lead by grieving couples. We partner like losses so that our families can find commonality and similarities in other families’ stories.
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8. Attend a Restored Retreat
A Grieving Mother’s Retreat for women who have experienced any form of child loss are invited, including miscarriage, stillbirth, and the loss of an infant child, adolescent, or adult child.
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9. Attend a Follow Me Retreat
A Grieving Dad’s Retreat, for men who have experienced any form of child loss, are invited including miscarriage, stillbirth, and the loss of an infant child, adolescent, or adult child.
Church Pathway
Click here to find out if your diocese/parish is a Red Bird Ministries Chapter/Flock. Contact the diocese or parish leader for information, obtain materials, and meet with a group leader for support information.
Become a Leader
Order Materials here
If your church is not yet a Red Bird Ministries parish flock, please make an introduction to your pastor or bishop. Red Bird Ministries partners with the diocese or parish to bring support to the families in your area. Parish Proposal
How to help a friend who is grieving?
The Catholic Church's teaching of the Spiritual Works of Mercy #4 “To comfort the sorrowful.” It is an act of love to help another person in any kind of sorrow and to refrain from doing anything that would unnecessarily cause another person more sorrow.
We offer a FREE 30-day series resource for friends and family members of child loss. It is to help those near and dear to the parents, with the opportunity to support them on their journey as they begin to heal. The resources are broken up into nuggets of information with a short little contemplation to take along with you.
When you sign up for the series, you will receive an email from us daily for 30 days with this content.
Want to help your friend, but don’t know what you can do?
Organize a meal train to ensure your friends have a home-cooked meal while they are in the midst of grief.
Companion Couple
RBM's companion couples serve Christ and the Church by leading in local RBM Chapters and Flocks initiatives and by being a spokesperson for RBM within their own community/diocese/region. This can be accomplished by inviting couples into the RBM experience to find support and guidance on their journey to restoration and healing.
Are you close to us?
Come visit us at the House of Grace. We would love to share this safe space with you to take your grief. We are please to announce that we recently purchased the House of Grace purely on faith and direction from God. We have a desire to share this sacred place with families who need to sit with us face-to-face, heart-to-heart in grief, and recieve love breathed in from other families of loss.
Red Bird Team
We understand the grief all to well. The founders and core team have all experienced child loss and other deaths in the family. Each one of our team members is committed to serving individuals and couples who have lost someone they love, including those who have experienced the loss of a child from pregnancy through adulthood, and those who have lost a spouse or parent. We are here for you!
Kelly Breaux
President
kelly@redbird.love
Ryan Breaux
Vice President
ryanb@redbird.love
Elizabeth Leon Director of Family Support elizabeth@redbird.love
Rachel Boulanger
Executive Assistant
rachel@redbird.love
Brittany Primeaux
Mothers of Loss Mentor Leader
teamsupport@redbird.love
Anna Gowasack
Director of Psychological Services
anna@redbird.love
Pam Stanford
Leader Formation
pamjr65@gmail.com
Kathy Purpera
Spiritual Director
kpurpera@icloud.com
Edith Ray Counseling Advisor hello@redbird.love
“Never could I have imagined that just weeks after having a baby shower for my cousin Victoria, we would be planning a funeral. Victoria was 36 weeks pregnant when her baby had cardiac failure. Sadness overcame the entire family as we waited with her after the doctors induce labor.
For family members, it is unimaginable to understand the grief our loved ones are experiencing, and the only way to be there is to discern how best I support her. I knew that I could make phone calls, contact our parish priest, and help with planning the funeral services. It was very overwhelming, to say the least. I happened to be working with Kelly Breaux on a Red Bird Ministries project. At this point, I was just learning the organization's mission and purpose. God works in mysterious ways, I went from providing professional services to receiving guidance and support when my family needed it most.
You read the statistics, you know there are support groups and organizations but I experienced first hand that there is no single resource that adequately guides a family who has lost someone. This is where Red Bird Ministries steps in, the organization does not only focus on the individual or couple who've experienced loss, they provide guidance to family members because child loss affects every family member, we all grieve together!
Red Bird Ministries was a huge blessing for my family, and Victoria's heart continues to heal. We remember our sweet baby boy and we will never forget the love and prayers that covered our family during this unimaginable moment.”
— Karla Alfaro: Red Bird Ministries Graphic Design Consultant