Episode 11: Fear of the New Year

“But do not ignore this one fact, beloved, that with the Lord one day is like a thousand years and a thousand years like one day.” - 2 Peter 3:8

In this episode, Elizabeth, Brittany, and Kelly discuss the fear and uncertainty that comes with entering a new year after the loss of a child. We explore the different experiences of time and the struggle time progressing without our children. Our conversation is grounded in 2 Peter 3:8 and in holding the tension between the past and the present.  We share our different experiences of time “moving on” and the reality that our beloved children still exist, in eternity. We pray our conversation blesses you wherever you are in your grief journey.

Takeaways include: 

  • Entering a new year after the loss of a child can be filled with fear and uncertainty.

  • Time can feel different after the loss of a child, and it can be challenging to settle into a new year without them.

  • Finding consolation in scripture and seeking guidance from trusted spiritual advisors can help navigate the complexities of grief.

  • Living with the tension of wanting to go back to the past while accepting the reality of the present is a constant struggle.



Elizabeth Leon

Elizabeth Leon is the Director of Family Support for Red Bird Ministries. She and her husband Ralph are from Ashburn, Virginia and have ten children between them - five of hers, four of his, and their son, John Paul Raphael who died on January 5, 2018. His short and shining life was a sacred experience that transformed her heart and left a message of love for the world: let yourself be loved. She writes about finding the Lord in the darkness of grief in her book Let Yourself Be Loved: Big Lessons from a Little Life, available wherever books are sold. Read more from Elizabeth at www.letyourselfbeloved.com.

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