For grieving mothers who are in search of something more than shallow survival.

Revival, A Grieving Mother’s Retreat

Red Bird Ministries is offering an overnight weekend retreat at the Our Lady of Perpetual Help Retreat Center for grieving mothers of all ages, stages, and circumstances from pregnancy through adulthood.

When: June 7-9, 2024

  • Retreat check-in begins on Friday 3:00 pm EST

  • Retreat ends on Sunday at 1:00 pm EST.

Where:

The Diocese of Lansing, MI . DeSales Retreat Center 1198 DeSales Drive Brooklyn, MI 49230

“Revival” literally means a bringing alive of what was dead, and is something only God himself can do. Revival cannot be achieved by any human efforts, programs, or strategies, no matter how sincere and energetic. After showing the prophet Ezekiel a valley full of dry bones, God explained that they were an image of Israel: spiritually lifeless, barren, and hopeless. Then God commanded, “Prophesy, and say to them, ‘Thus says the Lord God: Behold, I will open your graves, and raise you from your graves, O my people.’”

God alone can put flesh on dry bones and breathe into his people the breath of Divine Life.

  • Gosh, I don’t know where to start to thank you and the team for a most incredible weekend of restoration and for digging me out of the trenches. I have had a peace that has overtaken me and I pray it never leaves me.

  • It's hard to describe how I felt when left the retreat on Sunday .... peace, love, my shoulders felt lighter, my brain was clearer. I have a thirst for more of this wonderful feeling. It's the best I've felt in the last 14 months. I feel like i have a purpose again.

  • It was the first time since my loss where I felt completely understood and supported. The graces of the sacraments blessed our retreat in so many ways that made the weekend so beautiful and holy. I’m grateful for the women who shared their testimonies and how they’ve run to Jesus in the wake of sorrow rather than run away. I left full of hope and feeling lighter knowing the Lord carries me.

  • If you want to feel surrounded by love, and know that you are not alone. Attending this retreat is an opportunity for you to meet other mothers and be surrounded by love and encouragement.

  • I prayed, I went, and I am grateful that I did. This is a Catholic, faith-based retreat. You cannot find anything like this, I know, I've searched. It was healing in so many ways and powerful. I pray that we are able to bring it to our Parish. Remember, the enemy always works against us, we must preserve for the Glory of God and for our beloved children.

  • On day one, I was ready to get in my car and drive two hours back home. I am so glad I stayed! Just when you think you know it all, there is always more to learn! I was reminded of the tools that I can use to help me carry this cross. I am not a fan of group therapy by any means. I was very apprehensive about sharing. I felt very welcomed and loved from the moment I arrived. I could not ask for a better group of women to share this unfortunate journey. Honestly, I have to say that I am a better person because of this experience. Thank you!

  • Attending the Retreat and spending time with the Holy Spirit reaffirmed that my child is with my Jesus. I also learned that our children are present with us every time we go to Communion so that brought such joy and peace to me. Just knowing that being able to have a closer connection with my son really heals my heart.

  • This retreat was beyond helpful and uplifting! It gave me the affirmation I needed to know that my suffering isn’t for nothing and that I am a wonderful mother.

  • Talking about my story helps me heal. Hearing others’ stories makes me feel like others understand me.

  • Thank you for the care you took in preparing this special time together, for the Love you showed us, the comfort you provided, & the Hope you renewed.

  • I am so blessed to have gone to your retreat. I feel that I can handle the dark days so much better now. Thank you again for all you've done for us moms.

  • Today, I am much "better " , more rested and more capable to start processing what I experienced this weekend. There were sooo many things I really wanted and needed to write down this weekend that I just couldn't focus to do.But I did realize that this healing and restoring is not a passive situation. It requires action on my part- to trust, to offer up, to surrender, to allow and to listen. Sounds easy... it is all something I need to practice and learn in a new way. I do believe God is there for the journey.

  • Reflecting on my experience over the last couple of days and letting certain connections and realizations sink in.... I'm seeing more and more how complex the inner working of Gods plan is and how perfectly orchestrated my life has been to leas me to this place. There were so many miraculous things and feelings I felt this weekend.. purely unexplainable things that happened - and with further processing at home it all seems even more miraculous.

  • I felt Christ's light on me this weekend - very literally - and I know my life is forever changed. This life seems so much more temporary than it ever has and my eyes have never been so focused toward the heavens. I was eager to share my experience with my husband and honestly with whomever else will listen.

Meet the Team

  • Kelly Breaux

    FOUNDER

  • Pam Stanford

    RECTOR

  • Mikayla Baggett

    RETREAT COORDINATOR

  • Sr. Kathryn Maney

    Sr. Kathryn Maney

    RETREAT SPRITUAL DIRECTOR

  • Elizabeth Leon

    Elizabeth Leon

    FAMILY SUPPORT

  • Anna Gowasack, M.S.

    PSYCHOLOGICAL SERVICES

  • Brittany Primeaux

    TEAM SUPPORT

  • Jewell Bayhi

    RETREAT MOM

  • Regina Quiñones

    TEAM SUPPORT

  • Michelle McCauley

    TEAM SUPPORT

Meet Music Ministry Leader

Colleen McKenna

Colleen McKenna is a rare combination of an old soul and a young heart, perfectly expressed through her bright, resonant vocals and evocative storytelling. Her big dreams and fearless ambition carried her beyond small town Ohio and landed her in Nashville, TN where she found her sound among the classic country music she was raised on. At just 19, McKenna's writing style is wise beyond her years, as she sings about love, heartbreak, and loss while keeping her faith at the center of it all. She has explored various spheres of the music industry, collaborating with a worship music collective to release her debut singles Revival and Gethsemane in 2021, and independently released her debut country EP Rewind in 2022. Now, she is eager to open a new chapter of music that blurs the line between Christian and Country genres to speak to the human experience and glorify God. Her latest EP “Broken Record", a chronological story of heartbreak to healing is out now on all streaming platforms. 

Retreat Support Services Included:

  • Small Groups

    The retreatants will be grouped with their peers based on the age of their child at the time of the loss.

  • Counseling

    Retreatants have the opportunity to meet one-on-one with a professional grief counselor.

  • Spiritual Direction

    Retreatants can meet one-on-one with a certified spiritual director to discuss how grief has impacted their relationship with God.

  • Group Leader

    Each participant will be paired with a peer leader of the same age of loss.

Retreat Center Information & Prices

Upon entry into each villa building, you will encounter a comfortable gathering room equipped with multiple seating options, a dining table, and a library. Just beyond the gathering room is an up-to-date communal kitchenette furnished with a coffee maker, microwave, and refrigerator. The retreat center has 4 private rooms with one double bed and 22 shared rooms with two beds. Shared rooms can be converted into private rooms and will include two beds but without a roommate.

Shared Room – $450

Shared rooms are equipped with two beds, a private bath, and a screened-in porch

Private Room – $550

Private rooms are equipped with a private bath and screed-in porch.

No refunds will be given within 30 days of the retreat. Deposits are non-refundable. To apply for a scholarship, please click here.

  • Registration Dates

    Registration opens on March 1, 2024, and closes on May 31, 2024.

  • Refunds

    No refunds will be given within 30 days of the retreat. Refunds will only be given via store credit to be used for future retreats or materials.

  • Scholarships

    Financial sponsorships are provided but not guaranteed. Retreatants that have not made the retreat will be given sponsorships first. Apply for a scholarship here.

  • Travel Policy

    If you are traveling from another state, please arrange your transportation to and from the retreat center.

  • Travel Information

    The closest airports to the retreat center are the Sarasota Bradenton International Airport (SRQ), 37 minutes, or the Tampa International Airport (TPA), 1 hour and 18 minutes.

  • T-Shrits

    T-Shirts are sold separately for $25. Please add the t-shirt to your cart and check out with your registration.

“Simon, son of John, do you love me? Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you. Jesus said to him, Feed my sheep.”

John 21:17

Financial scholarships are provided but not guaranteed. Those who have not attended a RBM retreat will be given priority for scholarships.

Join us in Prayer!

Sign up to take a holy hour during our retreat by clicking the button below. Prayer can be done in your adoration chapel in front of the Blessed Sacrament, at your home church parish, or in your prayer corner at home.

Red Bird Friends,

Our community is currently facing a challenge. Due to financial difficulties, many families are unable to afford the cost of registration for our retreats. As a result, some may not be able to receive the necessary support they desperately need.

We kindly request that you prayerfully consider extending a helping hand by sponsoring one of our families. Your financial assistance would make a significant difference in their lives and enable them to find the healing and community they desperately need. We appreciate your generosity and compassion. Thank you for your support.

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