Episode 25: Pregnancy after Loss (the Fear is Real)

"Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me" Psalm 23:4

In this episode, Elizabeth Leon, Brittany Primeaux, and Dana Miller discuss the profound and complex emotions surrounding pregnancy after loss. They share personal stories of their experiences with grief, fear, and the journey of welcoming new life while still mourning the loss of their children. The conversation emphasizes the importance of faith, surrender, and the ability to hold both grief and joy simultaneously. Through scripture and personal anecdotes, they explore how to navigate the challenges of grief and find hope in the midst of fear.

Takeaways:

• The fear of losing another child is a common experience for parents who have faced loss.

• Grief and gratitude can coexist; it's possible to love a new child while mourning another.

• Surrendering control to God can bring peace and freedom from fear.

• Living in the present moment helps alleviate anxiety about the future.

• It's important to acknowledge fear but not let it dominate our lives.

• Recognizing that God is merciful and loving can help reshape our understanding of loss.

Sound Bites:

• “I was so afraid I wasn’t going to love her.”

• "The fear is real."

• "I thought I had to choose."

• "We can have grief and we can have joy."