Episode 26: Surviving Early Grief

“My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.” I will rather boast most gladly of my weaknesses, in order that the power of Christ may dwell with me.  ~2 Cor 12:9

In this episode of It’s Not for Nothing, Anna, Brittany, and Elizabeth discuss the complexities and agony of early grief, sharing personal experiences and insights into the psychological and physical aspects of the beginning of grief. They share honestly from their own experience surviving early grief and the lifelines that helped them endure the relentless suffering.  The conversation highlights the need for externalizing grief and finding hope amidst the pain that this pain is not the end of the story. 

Takeaways:

  • Early grief is a unique and personal experience.

  • Acceptance of loss does not mean being okay with it.

  • Grief manifests physically and emotionally.

  • Finding meaning in grief is a crucial part of healing.

  • Community support is vital during the grieving process.

  • Coping mechanisms can include art, writing, and seeking help.

  • Grief can come in waves, and it's important to allow it to flow.

  • It's normal to feel anger and sadness after a loss.

  • Life changes after loss, but it does not end.

  • Love remains a powerful force even in grief.

Chapters:

02:23 Understanding Early Grief

08:04 The Physical and Emotional Impact of Grief

12:19 Navigating the Timeline of Grief

12:42 Personal Experiences of Grief

19:58 Finding Support and Lifelines in Grief

21:53 The Importance of Community in Grief

26:56 Recognizing Shifts in Grief

27:43 Milestones in the Grieving Process

29:15 The Duality of Grief: Robotically Functioning vs. Flourishing

33:22 Finding Hope and Healing in Faith

40:01 Life Has Changed, Not Ended

Elizabeth Leon

Elizabeth Leon is the Director of Family Support for Red Bird Ministries. She and her husband Ralph are from Ashburn, Virginia and have ten children between them - five of hers, four of his, and their son, John Paul Raphael who died on January 5, 2018. His short and shining life was a sacred experience that transformed her heart and left a message of love for the world: let yourself be loved. She writes about finding the Lord in the darkness of grief in her book Let Yourself Be Loved: Big Lessons from a Little Life, available wherever books are sold. Read more from Elizabeth at www.letyourselfbeloved.com.

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